Wed, 14 October 2009 I wasn’t going to upload this last podcast. But Monk says I’m being silly. And lord knows, I need the blog-content, I've been way too busy to write much lately.So, I am ignoring a voice in the back of my head that says it’s slightly undignified. Unladylike, in fact. Yes, I know – I don’t feel the slightest qualm about posting photos of myself sticking needles in people. That's perfectly dignified. It's <span style="font-style: italic;">kinky,</span> but it's not undignified. But I do feel that it is slightly undignified to post slightly-tipsy rants about one of my pet topics: Crazy People And Sex Work. Just to be clear – thank you, President Obama – I am not disclaiming the basic opinions I express here. I just wish I had voiced them a trifle less profanely and a trifle less… stridently. Whoops. There's also a whole side conversation about fisting, in which I make an ill-advised personal disclosure. Thus, I bring to a close the era of cocktails while podcasting. Enjoy us in all our ranty glory, the next round will be far more calm, sober and public-radio-esque. (Well, I will be, at least. I cannot speak for Monk.) Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Tue, 6 October 2009
First letter: when to disclose to a potential new partner that you are poly, if they don’t know already. Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Thu, 1 October 2009 In this podcast, we do a lot of silly banter about needles
and being naked in bed, and then Monk reads a letter about how to do fast, easy
rope bondage during a resistance play scene, and I make some comments about
securing someone who is larger than you. After that, I verbally slap around someone who wants me to do their kinky thinking for them. About 16 minutes.Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Wed, 23 September 2009 ![]() Questions about Polyamory: Time-management for poly people: how many
partners is too many? And the difficulty of finding polyamorous partners when you're young. (Meaning: in your twenties.) Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Fri, 18 September 2009 After way too long of an
interval - blame it on our busy schedules - Monk and I got together in
the zombie-proof sound studio and recorded some silly rants. This one is a little short, only about seven minutes. It's a letter from a reader who asks about sustaining BDSM energy in a long-term relationship. Enjoy! Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Wed, 8 July 2009 In this one, Monk and I read letters about
polyamory. First we talk about the not-so-good idea of comparing your
partners. "Why can't Partner B be more like Partner A." Then Monk talks
a little about his wife Tambo - and explains why he hardly ever talks
about her. (Hint: She is Keyser Soze.)Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Fri, 3 July 2009 In this podcast, first we read a letter about safewords, and make mention of my two favorite safewords: vomit and lawsuit. I promise, those two words will capture any top's attention, anytime.We also talk about the challenges of doing BDSM with a partner who is hearing-impaired. I make a verbal slip at one point that I must correct: I mistakenly say, "They can hear ME," which is not what I meant. I meant: a hearing-impaired person can talk, and I can hear THEM. Whoops. Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Sun, 21 June 2009 Monk and I talk about bdsm toys we love.Comments[1] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Fri, 12 June 2009 In this podcast, we read some follow-up letters about kinky relationships, and then Monk rants
about the joys of creating a business selling kinky products.Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||
Mon, 1 June 2009 ![]() In this podcast, Monk and I talk about the very sticky issue
of dealing with parents who get nosy about their adult-children's sex
life. Or: What To Do When Your Parents Find Out You're Kinky - And They
Aren't Happy. Comments[0] | ||||||||||||||||||||

I wasn’t going to upload this last podcast. But Monk says I’m being silly. And lord knows, I need the blog-content, I've been way too busy to write much lately.