Fri, 3 July 2009 In this podcast, first we read a letter about safewords, and make mention of my two favorite safewords: vomit and lawsuit. I promise, those two words will capture any top's attention, anytime.We also talk about the challenges of doing BDSM with a partner who is hearing-impaired. I make a verbal slip at one point that I must correct: I mistakenly say, "They can hear ME," which is not what I meant. I meant: a hearing-impaired person can talk, and I can hear THEM. Whoops. Comments[0] |
Sun, 21 June 2009 Monk and I talk about bdsm toys we love.Comments[0] |
Fri, 12 June 2009 In this podcast, we read some follow-up letters about kinky relationships, and then Monk rants
about the joys of creating a business selling kinky products.Comments[0] |
Mon, 1 June 2009 ![]() In this podcast, Monk and I talk about the very sticky issue
of dealing with parents who get nosy about their adult-children's sex
life. Or: What To Do When Your Parents Find Out You're Kinky - And They
Aren't Happy. Comments[0] |
Fri, 15 May 2009 In this podcast, Monk and I talk
about hierarchy in poly relationships. What does primary mean? What does
secondary mean? Do you need these terms? Are they useful or limiting?So if you get off on that kind of analysis, you'll loooooove this podcast. It's heavy polyamory theory. Comments[0] |
Tue, 14 April 2009 Monk and I answer letters about male rope tops getting overwhelmed by girls who want to ride the bondage-go-round, and then talk about a letter from a woman who says she wants to hire a male escort.Comments[0] |
Tue, 7 April 2009 A new podcast, in which Monk and I talk about "name-dropping" versus
giving references, and then we say things that will make furries
everywhere hate us. (Adult babies, too.) It's a testament to power of
good marketing. Or not.About fifteen minutes, not work safe. Comments[3] |
Tue, 31 March 2009 Monk and I offer yet another take on the eternal question: how do you reconcile different sexual tastes in a marriage? A woman writes in to ask about her husband's kinky desires and her own not-so-kinky styles. Then, an aspiring professional dominatrix asks about integrating her professional persona into the BDSM community. Is there prejudice? Comments[0] |
Fri, 20 March 2009 Monk and I answer a reader's letter about dealing with her jealousy in a polyamorous relationship. About 15 minutes.Comments[0] |
Wed, 25 February 2009 Monk and I speculate about Jews and kink, and then
Monk explains the story of how he got into kink and became a
rope-maker. Also briefly mentioned is my ability to shoot laser beams
from my eyes. Enjoy!Comments[0] |

In this podcast, first we read a letter about safewords, and make mention of my two favorite safewords: