Mistress Matisse's Podcast

Am I Kinky? How Do I Approach A Pro Domme?

Tue, 14 Oct 2008 06:47:00 GMT

We read a letter from a woman who asks, "What qualifies someone as kinky?" Then Monk and I address that, and then kid about how East Coast people think too much.

Next letter: a man asks me about seeing pro dommes, and Monk and I talk about a kink scene as compared to cooking. Monk talks about his own experiences as a professional dominant.

Sex Work Questions and Answers

Sun, 5 Oct 2008 05:38:00 GMT

Monk and I answer reader questions about life as a sex worker... Emotional self-care for sex workers, and legal brothel questions.

About 13 minutes.

Show Them How You Like It!

Mon, 22 Sep 2008 04:37:00 GMT

Monk and I riff about The Venture Brothers, and then answer a reader's letter about dominance/sadism vs. masochism/submission. What do those words mean? Aligning your tastes with your partnersâ Then we give some sources of "educational porn", and answer a reader who asks: my lover liked kinky sex with her ex, but not with me â what to do?

(About fifteen minutes.)

The Fab Four: Matisse, Max, Monk and Puck, All Together!

Mon, 15 Sep 2008 08:15:00 GMT

Max and Puck join Monk and I for a chat. Max talks about his beginnings as a BDSM person, and how he came to be a rope bondage top and bondage instructor. About 20 minutes.

Questions About Getting Into Kink, And Going Pro

Wed, 6 Aug 2008 09:48:00 GMT

There's a lot of ranting in this podcast. Monk and I read a letter and then I go off into my "JFGI" rant. Then, Monk talks about being a new male top and a BDSM vendor.

Kink and Technology

Mon, 28 Jul 2008 08:24:00 GMT

Monk and I riff about the role of tech gear in their lives and how it affects our sex lives...

Can Endorphins From BDSM Be Used For Pain Management?

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:04:00 GMT

A complex question from a reader about harnessing the endorphins often released during physically intense BDSM - can they be used to manage pain from a medical issue?

Letters From Readers: When BDSM Scenes Go Sideways

Fri, 11 Jul 2008 07:52:00 GMT

Matisse and Monk read a letters asking about what to do when BDSM scenes go awry because of emotional issues.

Polamory: How Much Information Is Too Much?

Mon, 30 Jun 2008 06:15:00 GMT

Matisse and Monk talk about starting new polyamorous relationships: how much information about new lovers do you share with your existing lovers?

What's Going On With Monk And Matisse

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 23:50:00 GMT

Monk of Twisted Monk and Mistress Matisse talk about what's going on in both their professional worlds...

Polamory Rules

Mon, 10 Mar 2008 07:57:00 GMT

Monk and I answer a reader letter about rules in polyamory...

A Good Spanking

Wed, 20 Feb 2008 08:04:00 GMT

Mistress Matisse and Monk of Twisted Monk discuss impact on the ass - how to give it, how to get it, and dealing with the aftermath...

Jealousy Tactics: Avoid or Innoculate?

Fri, 11 Jan 2008 07:29:00 GMT

Monk and Matisse talk about the strategies for handling jealousy - avoid the situation vs. face it and get over it.

Unfulfilled Fantasies - Another Look At Introducing Your Partner To Kink

Thu, 27 Dec 2007 07:01:00 GMT

Sounds - The Long Metal Kind...

Tue, 18 Dec 2007 07:22:00 GMT

Asking For Something Different In Bed: Advice From The Mistress

Fri, 9 Nov 2007 02:29:00 GMT

Mistress Matisse and Monk talk about how to ask your lover for something new in bed. Sex advice mingled with a lot of silliness.

Feels Like The First Time: An Early Kinky Experience

Wed, 31 Oct 2007 07:40:00 GMT

Another first-recording-session, so still a bit raw. But a fun discussion about boobs, and then I tell a story about the first time I ever I purposely took control in a sexual encounter with a guy.

The Very First Podcast! Questions From Readers

Tue, 23 Oct 2007 07:03:00 GMT

This is a clip from the first recording session I ever did, so it's a bit raw. But I think it's fun. Monk of TwistedMonk.com joins me for questions from my blog readers about my partner Max, and a discussion of polyamory etiquette. Plus there's some dirty talk and general silliness. Adults only!